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Question

How can a family have a relationship with a new husband when his domineering wife doesn't want to have anything to do with the family?

Answer

Family conflicts like the above example can be very disturbing to many people. The first year of marriage contains major adjustments for the new couple and extended family members. A guideline for all connected to this couple is to stay away from deciding who is to blame and continue extending invitations to them. The more complicated and destructive this problem is, the more you may wish to consider professional intervention with someone who has experience in marital and family therapy and/or mediation.

3/12/98