Comments for SelfhelpMagazine Blog http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu SelfhelpMagazine Issues & News Sat, 03 Dec 2011 15:28:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Lesbian: Coming Out to Your Parents by Moon Hesson http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/242/comment-page-1/#comment-3961 Moon Hesson Sat, 03 Dec 2011 15:28:17 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=242#comment-3961 I wrote just the other day how proud I was of the Governor for standing up for those in pain and suffering from a myriad of illness when our other so called representatives seem to lack understanding or compassion for the very people who put them in office. I was overcome with a since of wow he cares. He heard our voices. He heard the cries and he sees our suffering. But it seems it is just not enough pain and suffering to move him to go against the cruelty. What a shame he will leave office with a legacy of betraying the sick, hurting and dying. I wrote just the other day how proud I was of the Governor for standing up for those in pain and suffering from a myriad of illness when our other so called representatives seem to lack understanding or compassion for the very people who put them in office. I was overcome with a since of wow he cares. He heard our voices. He heard the cries and he sees our suffering. But it seems it is just not enough pain and suffering to move him to go against the cruelty. What a shame he will leave office with a legacy of betraying the sick, hurting and dying.

]]> Comment on Cross-dresser Husband by Staci Scsarpisnato http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/crossdresser-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3960 Staci Scsarpisnato Sat, 03 Dec 2011 12:05:28 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=278#comment-3960 This is the best site for anyone who desires to find out about this topic. You notice so much its nearly onerous to argue with you (not that I truly would want...HaHa). You undoubtedly put a brand new spin on a subject thats been wrote about for years. Nice stuff, simply nice! This is the best site for anyone who desires to find out about this topic. You notice so much its nearly onerous to argue with you (not that I truly would want…HaHa). You undoubtedly put a brand new spin on a subject thats been wrote about for years. Nice stuff, simply nice!

]]> Comment on All About Cyber Stalking by Kimberly Miles http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/all-about-cyber-stalking/comment-page-1/#comment-3956 Kimberly Miles Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:30:54 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=419#comment-3956 I was once stalked and scammed like that. It was really a horrible experience. I was once stalked and scammed like that. It was really a horrible experience.

]]> Comment on Son Loves Wearing Lingeries by ed http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/son-loves-wearing-lingeries/comment-page-1/#comment-3954 ed Wed, 12 Oct 2011 17:34:55 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=312#comment-3954 does anyone read our readings? Well I gave in, my son is off grounding for the week. Lets face it, my son is a girl. As you know from my last writings. I am going to let him see his new boy friend as I would if he was a real girl. But with the understanding he can't go on real dates because of his age (12). Visits as a friend in our house only. No going up to the bedroom or to close in the pool. No kissing in front of us. I told my son, "yes you may see him, but as friends only". I told him or her, "you being a boy wanting to have a boy friend is not the problem, it's your age". Last week he asked me if his friend could stay over for the night so they could play computer games. I said "NO". My son is a real pretty as a girl, a real knock out, I notice men as well as boys look him/her over when she's with us at the mall. Not because she is a boy but because she is growning up and starting to look more and more as a older girl. She 5'5" 105 lbs. No one can tell that she is a boy. does anyone read our readings? Well I gave in, my son is off grounding for the week. Lets face it, my son is a girl. As you know from my last writings. I am going to let him see his new boy friend as I would if he was a real girl. But with the understanding he can't go on real dates because of his age (12). Visits as a friend in our house only. No going up to the bedroom or to close in the pool. No kissing in front of us. I told my son, "yes you may see him, but as friends only". I told him or her, "you being a boy wanting to have a boy friend is not the problem, it's your age". Last week he asked me if his friend could stay over for the night so they could play computer games. I said "NO". My son is a real pretty as a girl, a real knock out, I notice men as well as boys look him/her over when she's with us at the mall. Not because she is a boy but because she is growning up and starting to look more and more as a older girl. She 5'5" 105 lbs. No one can tell that she is a boy.

]]> Comment on Son Loves Wearing Lingeries by ed http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/son-loves-wearing-lingeries/comment-page-1/#comment-3953 ed Wed, 12 Oct 2011 15:02:54 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=312#comment-3953 I agree with you. I also had a problem with my son. He wasn't the problem, it was me, I didn't understand why he decidied to became a girl. I blamed me and my wife. Till I started to read about cross dressers and what makes them think the way they do. I accepted it. My boy is a pretty little girl. So I need to treat him like a girl. No more forcing him to go to football games, paintball games, men to men talks, hiking, and praying for him to be healed. Last week I gave him or her a pretty neckless and my wife got him his first padded bra for his birthday. Why? I just wanted for my son to be happy growing up in this family and feel like THIS is his family and home. But most of all I wanted for him to know, no matter what happens he will always be my son or better yet, my little girl. Accept your kid, don't grow old without him or her. I wanted a son, ended up with the best little girl in the whole wide world. I still feel lucky and I am not ashame of the cards that was dealed to me. I can always have my friends over to watch the Cowboys on TV while my little girl helps his mom cook cookies and brings us cold beer. Advise to you, be happy, it's not all that bad. And life goes on............ I agree with you. I also had a problem with my son. He wasn't the problem, it was me, I didn't understand why he decidied to became a girl. I blamed me and my wife. Till I started to read about cross dressers and what makes them think the way they do. I accepted it. My boy is a pretty little girl. So I need to treat him like a girl. No more forcing him to go to football games, paintball games, men to men talks, hiking, and praying for him to be healed. Last week I gave him or her a pretty neckless and my wife got him his first padded bra for his birthday. Why? I just wanted for my son to be happy growing up in this family and feel like THIS is his family and home. But most of all I wanted for him to know, no matter what happens he will always be my son or better yet, my little girl. Accept your kid, don't grow old without him or her. I wanted a son, ended up with the best little girl in the whole wide world. I still feel lucky and I am not ashame of the cards that was dealed to me. I can always have my friends over to watch the Cowboys on TV while my little girl helps his mom cook cookies and brings us cold beer. Advise to you, be happy, it's not all that bad. And life goes on…………

]]> Comment on Crossdressing by ed http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-3952 ed Wed, 12 Oct 2011 14:32:37 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/wordpress/?p=90#comment-3952 Christine, There is two ways to deal with it. Stay in the closet or come out. Having to deal with my son and trying just about every thing, his still wants to be a girl. I really think there is no problem in wanting something that makes you happy. The problem is the lack of understanding from others. Think about this, if you don't do what you want, like cross dressing, you will never have a second chance to do it or try it ever again. Once your dead, your dead. You are not coming back again to try it. So my advise to you is, 1. there is nothing wrong with you. 2. as my son would say, "I don't care what others say about me, I am not them, I am me, and "me" is what I want to make happy". 3. be careful. 4. if you fill good putting on female clothe, than do it. American doesn't have any dress codes. But check anyway. Stay within the rules and local laws. 5. My son, at 12 knows what he wants to be and dress like for the rest of his life. We take him to the stores to buy his girls clothe. No one cares. Maybe because he looks more like a girl and acts like one. Maybe later I let him shop on line for his personals. Even if he looks like a girl, I still keep an eye on him, I don't want him to get hurt. Be careful about what you do in public and around the family. But don't be someone your not, if you are and love to dress like a girl, do it, but be safe. Don't let anyone live your life for you. Don't live in "not doing what you" Remenber, in 50 to 100 years from how, no one will remenber or care what you done in life. My son haves no problem, his living life as he see's it. Good luck. Christine,

There is two ways to deal with it. Stay in the closet or come out. Having to deal with my son and trying just about every thing, his still wants to be a girl. I really think there is no problem in wanting something that makes you happy. The problem is the lack of understanding from others. Think about this, if you don't do what you want, like cross dressing, you will never have a second chance to do it or try it ever again. Once your dead, your dead. You are not coming back again to try it. So my advise to you is,
1. there is nothing wrong with you.
2. as my son would say, "I don't care what others say about me, I am not them, I am me, and "me" is what I want to make happy".
3. be careful.
4. if you fill good putting on female clothe, than do it. American doesn't have any dress codes. But check anyway. Stay within the rules and local laws.
5. My son, at 12 knows what he wants to be and dress like for the rest of his life. We take him to the stores to buy his girls clothe. No one cares. Maybe because he looks more like a girl and acts like one. Maybe later I let him shop on line for his personals. Even if he looks like a girl, I still keep an eye on him, I don't want him to get hurt. Be careful about what you do in public and around the family. But don't be someone your not, if you are and love to dress like a girl, do it, but be safe. Don't let anyone live your life for you. Don't live in "not doing what you" Remenber, in 50 to 100 years from how, no one will remenber or care what you done in life. My son haves no problem, his living life as he see's it.

Good luck.

]]> Comment on Son Loves Wearing Lingeries by ed http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/son-loves-wearing-lingeries/comment-page-1/#comment-3950 ed Tue, 11 Oct 2011 17:40:54 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=312#comment-3950 I don't know if I should let my kid have the freedom to wear girls clothe around the house. He seens to be happier having the freedom to do so. The problem I am having is she a little boy grazy. At this time I let him wear what he wants and sometimes I take him down town dressed as a girl. He looks like a girl and no one think she's a boy. But I still am having problems with his way of life. If I don't let him wear girl cloth in the house he gets real depressed and won't eat or come out from his room. A few nigths ago, he was wearing make up and a little dress. A friend came over to visit me from work. My son came out all dressed up and acted like there was nothing wrong. He was acting like a little girl. Maybe a little to friendly and nice to my friend. She always acts that way when around people but mostly men. A little too friendly, but in a good way, not in a sexcail way. My friend could not tell the differance. Till this day he thinks I have a pretty 12 year old girl and not a boy. I didn't say anything about my son. In my eyes my boy is a 12 year old little girl...in my heart she is my son. He was doing the girl thing since he was 5 years old. For the last year or so, we been buying him girls clothe. Because he acts more like a girl than a boy, walks, sits, talks, talks about boys, won't wear boy cloth, and looks just like a real girl. I don't know what to do. Maybe I blow it by letting him act like a girl. Last week he or she told me she was in love with this boy she met at the local park. She told me the boy have been kissed her. I found out they been seeing each other each night for about four weeks. I told him or she was too young to be dating, boy or girl. She's been wearing sexier clothe or trying too when she goes and see's him, like mimi dresses and real small hot shorts. I don't let him wear sexy dresses around in public or in the house, she is only 12. I feel comfused and lost about my son. Maybe home studies and let him not date that boy? But what will happen when the boy wants to try having sex? I talked to him/her about that. He told me the boy keeps trying each time they are together and alone, but she won't let him go 100% with her. She told me he told her, he wanted her real bad and needed sex each day (His 16)....12 years old, boy or girl not permitted here. She's grounded for a week till I can figure it all out. I don't know if I should let my kid have the freedom to wear girls clothe around the house. He seens to be happier having the freedom to do so. The problem I am having is she a little boy grazy. At this time I let him wear what he wants and sometimes I take him down town dressed as a girl. He looks like a girl and no one think she's a boy. But I still am having problems with his way of life. If I don't let him wear girl cloth in the house he gets real depressed and won't eat or come out from his room. A few nigths ago, he was wearing make up and a little dress. A friend came over to visit me from work. My son came out all dressed up and acted like there was nothing wrong. He was acting like a little girl. Maybe a little to friendly and nice to my friend. She always acts that way when around people but mostly men. A little too friendly, but in a good way, not in a sexcail way. My friend could not tell the differance. Till this day he thinks I have a pretty 12 year old girl and not a boy. I didn't say anything about my son. In my eyes my boy is a 12 year old little girl…in my heart she is my son. He was doing the girl thing since he was 5 years old. For the last year or so, we been buying him girls clothe. Because he acts more like a girl than a boy, walks, sits, talks, talks about boys, won't wear boy cloth, and looks just like a real girl. I don't know what to do. Maybe I blow it by letting him act like a girl. Last week he or she told me she was in love with this boy she met at the local park. She told me the boy have been kissed her. I found out they been seeing each other each night for about four weeks. I told him or she was too young to be dating, boy or girl. She's been wearing sexier clothe or trying too when she goes and see's him, like mimi dresses and real small hot shorts. I don't let him wear sexy dresses around in public or in the house, she is only 12. I feel comfused and lost about my son. Maybe home studies and let him not date that boy? But what will happen when the boy wants to try having sex? I talked to him/her about that. He told me the boy keeps trying each time they are together and alone, but she won't let him go 100% with her. She told me he told her, he wanted her real bad and needed sex each day (His 16)….12 years old, boy or girl not permitted here. She's grounded for a week till I can figure it all out.

]]> Comment on Straight Man attrracted to Lesbian – Part II by Cole Frawkin http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/straight-man-attrracted-to-lesbian-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-3946 Cole Frawkin Thu, 15 Sep 2011 01:53:19 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/wordpress/?p=111#comment-3946 Thnkx so much for this! Thnkx so much for this!

]]> Comment on Straight Man attrracted to Lesbian – Part II by Johana Negley http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/straight-man-attrracted-to-lesbian-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-3944 Johana Negley Tue, 13 Sep 2011 22:27:25 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/wordpress/?p=111#comment-3944 Good job. Good job.

]]> Comment on Want Help for Drug and Alcohol Addiction? by Madhukar Dhiman http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/seeking-help-for-drug-and-alcohol-addiction/comment-page-1/#comment-3933 Madhukar Dhiman Fri, 01 Jul 2011 11:44:50 +0000 http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/maheu/?p=702#comment-3933 The problem is not that help is not available the problem with most of the addicts (myself included) is to give our 100%. when we were in using we used to find some way or the other to meet our requirements. We have had drugs where no body in his wildest dreams could think that drugs existed. Even when we were broke we had enough to meet our habits. So this proves that we are not weak or we do not have the will power, we are short of willingness and that is what is required to see us through. Help is always there. The problem is not that help is not available the problem with most of the addicts (myself included) is to give our 100%. when we were in using we used to find some way or the other to meet our requirements. We have had drugs where no body in his wildest dreams could think that drugs existed. Even when we were broke we had enough to meet our habits. So this proves that we are not weak or we do not have the will power, we are short of willingness and that is what is required to see us through. Help is always there.

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