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Feeling So Anxious and Procrastinating
In the SHM Community Forums, Joanne responded to one forum member who is worried about a job application rather than enjoying her day off with her boyfriend. She said: I think what you're describing is too much pressure – I know the feeling all too well. I've learned to do 1 thing at a time, and if my mind starts wandering over to another, to call it back and say, "No! I...
Read MoreWant Help for Drug and Alcohol Addiction?
In the SHM Community Forums, Dini responded to one member who sought advice about her addiction to drugs and alcohol. He said: Hi Cat65, Welcome to these forums. There are plenty of decent, kind, wise and compassionate people around here who will respond to you with honesty just as you have so honestly described your own situation in your post. I admire the kind of honesty you expressed; it takes...
Read MoreWhen Your Parents Won't Listen
In the SHM Community Forums, Lily responded to one member who shared about her mom who doesn't really listen to what she says. She said: Mirmi, As we grow older, we notice more and more about our parents. It took me 40 years to realize that I never felt all those close to my Mother because she is so self involved that there's no room for ME in our relationship. As long as I keep the...
Read MoreCheat For Revenge On A Cheater
In the SHM Community Forum, Joanne responded to one member who had an unhealthy desire for revenge on his wife and at the same time, would really like to know why she doesn't love him anymore. She says: Ok, Mr. revenge-above-everything-else, let's say your plan works beautifully and she sees you with someone else. Then what? Do you think the pain in her eyes will someday just vanish?...
Read MoreThe First Step to Success: Awareness
In the SHM Community Forums, Dini responded to one member who considered herself a helpless liar. He said: Dear Firewoman, Welcome to this site! IMHO it takes enormous courage to step right up and state what's going on with you, and what your problems and difficulties are, with the honesty and candor with which you have done in your initial post. You have my admiration for that and I think...
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