Sometimes we push traumatic events out of conscious awareness because we don't have the resources to cope with them. Traumas like incest are often simply too disruptive to a child to deal with, and the best strategy in the moment is to forget about or repress them.

Other times we don't recognize that our symptoms are the result of traumatic stress because we haven't identified a remembered event as traumatic. Perhaps others downplayed the importance of it, wanting us to feel better and not "wallow" in something painful. Also an event that may be experienced as traumatic to the nervous system may be accepted within a given context as normal (e.g., battering a spouse) or necessary (e.g., medical interventions).

You may not consciously recall suffering from trauma, if your nervous system has been overwhelmed and you've felt panic, helplessness or feared for your life or sanity, you may be suffering from post-traumatic stress. This may be true even if you have not sought hazardous employment as an adult, but if you have, the twists and turns of your psyche may lead you to repeatedly seek PTSD-causing situations.

Although each traumatic stressor leaves a unique footprint, here are some clues that can help you recognize traumatic stress.

A common signs of trauma:

• Overreacting in situations and not understanding why
• Disturbing images that intrude into consciousness and seem to come from out of nowhere
• Feeling that you sort of fade away at times or don't feel in your body. Often at such times your brain doesn't work normally. It's like when your computer freezes up and everything is on hold (These are indications of dissociation.)
• Feeling overly sensitive and easily overwhelmed
• A sense that you are running away from something, often by staying too busy to really know what is going on with you
• Feeling that it is difficult to settle down, once you've become upset
• Feeling that it is hard to get your life together, blaming yourself and wondering what is wrong with you
• Noticing that you don't feel safe a fair amount of the time
• Significant gaps in memory, sometimes covering years
• Anger, sometimes turned against yourself and expressed in self-damaging ways

Unresolved trauma can lead not only to conditions like Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), but commonly to depression, anxiety, panic attacks, eating disorders and other addictions, emotional numbing, chronic tension in the body, and medical problems that seem to defy explanation or treatment, especially those involving chronic pain and autoimmune disorders.

What Can I Do?

If you suspect that you may be suffering from unresolved trauma, three things you might do are:

Be kind to yourself. If you are suffering from unresolved trauma and haven't recognized this, it's not your fault. No one else has recognized it either. The good news is that you can do something about it now.

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About the Author:

Jasmin Lee Cori, MS, LPC, is a licensed psychotherapist and author. Her book can be purchased from Amazon Bookstore by clicking in its title, here: Healing from Trauma: A Survivor's Guide to Understanding Your Symptoms and Reclaiming Your Life, and several other books. She has taught psychology in a number of colleges and professional schools. Her current work includes offering education for trauma survivors. You may reach her through her website, here.

To read an article by Ms. Cori about PTSD, click here.