COPING WITH BULIMIA
Diana K. Weiss, Ph.D.
- Melissa was a bright, attractive, popular teenager with
everything going for her. People didn't know she secretly ate huge
amounts of food, and vomited it wherever she could: the toilet at home
or friend's houses; the garbage disposal; paper bags she would throw out
of her car; and even bathrooms in all-you-can-eat restaurants. Her heart
dropped when her boyfriend told her that he knew she was overeating and
vomiting. He insisted she see a psychologist on campus immediately. She
reluctantly agreed, and soon began to understand what was happening to
her....
Bulimia Nervosa is an eating disorder characterized by:
- Recurrent binge eating (eating a much larger amount of food than
most individuals would eat under similar circumstances);
- Recurrent purging behavior (self-induced vomiting, misuse of laxatives,
diuretics, enemas, fasting, and/or excessive exercise);
- Bingeing and purging behavior both occur at least twice a week for
3 months;
- Extreme preoccupation with body appearance and weight.
Bulimia Nervosa usually starts to develop with:
- an extreme preoccupation with food;
- binge eating triggered by feelings, mood states, stressful situations;
and
- obsessive concern about body shape and weight.
A repetitive pattern then emerges, as bulimia becomes a
habit, a way of coping with life and its stresses.
There can be many serious repercussions to repetitive bulimic
behavior (e.g.. tooth decay, gum disease, malnutrition, digestive
problems, and electrolyte imbalances which can effect critical organs
including the heart). Additionally, relationships often suffer as the
individual with bulimia becomes increasingly withdrawn and secretive.
Generally, individuals with bulimia nervosa deny that the problem is
serious until it gets so out of control that they get scared. Each
person's bottom line is different. For some it is purging twice a week,
for others it is purging 15 times a day.
The good news is that we have solid knowledge and understanding about
how to treat bulimia nervosa today. A combination of individual psychotherapy,
group psychotherapy, antidepressant medication, and education, is the
most effective approach. Nonprofit organizations such as Overeaters
Anonymous can offer helpful support and structure.
Suggestions for those seeking recovery:
- Seek professional
help.
- Tell at least one good
friend of the problem.
- Go to a local bookstore and
read about bulimia.
- Through journal writing and
therapy, increase self-awareness of feelings and needs.
- Develop constructive
strategies for coping.
- Learn and practice assertiveness.
Suggestions for families or friends of individuals with bulimia
nervosa:
- Let them know that they
are loved - NO MATTER WHAT.
- Do not try to control their
food intake.
- Be a good listener.
- Be patient.
- Educate yourself on bulimia.
- Encourage them to meet with
a psychologist or counselor trained in eating disorders treatment.
5/28/98
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