Self-help Articles

by Richard B. Patterson, Ph.D.

Finding one's own spiritual path in a manner such as you have is, first of all, a singular act of courage. Keep in mind that persons who come from a narrow spiritual perspective will find your path threatening.

It does not offer the "security" of more black-and-white thinking. Thus, you come under attack because your own individual path can stir up fear in others. Keep in mind, too, that many people look for a comfortable religion.

Your own approach which emphasizes individual responsibility is not likely to sit well with those who want to be comfortable. Some of us are called to be prophets, i.e., people who make others uncomfortable by challenging.

Try to comfort yourself with the thought that, when you share openly about your beliefs, you may be planting seeds which may take root and grow without you ever knowing about it.

Finally, keep your eyes and ears open for like-minded persons. Such persons may not share your exact set of beliefs but can honor your own honesty and courage. In that way, you can create for yourself a supportive community.

Many people are seekers who are on a spiritual path that is similar to your own.

About the Author:

Richard B. Patterson, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice in El Paso, TX. He is the author of three books on psychology and spirituality.