by Gail S. Bernstein, Ph.D.
I really don't know what to do as I really love her. And I don't want to lose her. So by any chance, can you give me some relationship help?
She said she can have orgasms with women too. It's the first time that I have heard of a person can have both sexual reactions. I would very much appreciate it if you can provide information about bisexual women, like behavior, psychological demands or whatever.
Thanks for writing. Yes, people who are bisexual can be attracted to both men and women, and there's nothing abnormal about that. It's one of the ways people experience their sexuality.
And yes, it's possible for a person to have orgasms with both women and men. That doesn't say anything about who you are. A bisexual woman can be attracted to people of all sexual orientations.
One of the common myths about bisexual people, especially if they are women, is that they engage in a lot of group sex. That's just a myth: those who are bisexual are just as varied as the rest of us when it comes to sex and relationships. Some are celibate, some are monogamous, some engage in group sex, and so forth.
It's the quality of the relationship that matters, not the sexual orientation of the people involved. If you love her and it's a good relationship, that's what is important.
Hope this is the relationship help you needed.
About the Author:
Gail S. Bernstein, Ph.D. is an author and psychologist. She has a psychotherapy practice in Denver, Colorado. Dr. Bernstein speaks and writes about gay, lesbian and bisexual people for both general and professional audiences, and is the author of the audiotape, NOT HETEROSEXUAL: An Educational Program About Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual People.
Revised 11/21/08 by Marlene M. Maheu, Ph.D.
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