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Sex Drive after Childbirth

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by Dr. Al Cooper and Dr. Coralie Scherer

 
Question: Is it normal to have a reduction in sexual relations after having twins?

Congratulations on your new family additions! If you are like most families you are running short on sleep, diapers, money, help and energy--times two! You don't say how old your new twosome are but after childbirth hormones are in flux and, if an episiotomy or cesarean section helped ease their arrival, some soreness in healing may decrease mom's interest in sex.

The transition to parenthood is fraught with challenges and change and if couples aren't aware and don't take special steps to prevent it, they may find their relationship slipping to the back burner.

About the Author:

Dr. Al Cooper, was the clinical director at the San Jose Marital and Sexuality Centre (408-248-9737) and ran the training program for Counseling and Psychological Services at Stanford University. Dr. Cooper was internationally known for his work in sexuality.

Dr. Coralie Scherer coordinates online services for the Centre and specializes in sexual trauma, women's issues, and marital therapy.

Originally published 03/18/98
Revised 1/26/09 by Marlene M. Maheu, Ph.D.

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