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by Dr. Al Cooper and Dr. Coralie Scherer

It is fairly common for people to have strong reaction around the subject intercourse positions like anal sex--that is, sexual activity that involves stimulating the anorectal area--often because of shame as well as anxiety around homosexuality that is thought to be associated with it.

Studies Show Intercourse Positions Like Anal Sex Are Normal

Artifacts depicting anal intercourse found in Incan ruins indicate that this variant of sexual practice was known in antiquity. Apparently, the practice is not only known but fairly common in the United States today.

• Studies reveal that it is most common among homosexual men and least common among lesbians.
• In the vast middle, 22-43% of bisexual and heterosexual men and women report that they have tried it at least once.
• Anal sex is not for every one--even male homosexuals. Different studies indicate that anal sex is not the primary preferred method of sexual activity even for gay men.

It is hard to generalize about who would enjoy this activity and who would not. That's part of what makes sexuality novel and exciting--exploring what works best for you and your partner. Remember that there are "different strokes for different folks." No one should feel pressured into doing intercourse positions that they are not comfortable with nor should some one be judged for liking something other than mainstream sex.

About the Author:

Dr. Al Cooper, was the clinical director at the San Jose Marital and Sexuality Centre (408-248-9737) and ran the training program for Counseling and Psychological Services at Stanford University. Dr. Cooper was internationally known for his work in sexuality.

Dr. Coralie Scherer coordinates online services for the Centre and specializes in sexual trauma, women's issues, and marital therapy.