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by Marianne Ross, Ph.D.

It is very likely that you will get that "back in control" feeling again. Check out the suggestions below to see if any of this information (from a flyer with no author indicated) is helpful to you. No matter what, be kind to yourself. Self-criticism is not known to be a helpful tool. Encouragement and guidance are preferred.

To Gain Control Of Your Eating Habits First Plan What You Eat:

• Keep healthy and tasty food at home.
• If need be, pre-package it in healthy portions.
• Don't eat sweets by themelves. Eat pie, cake, candy, cookies and other sugary foods with a meal to avoid blood sugar swings that can trigger fatigue, depression, anxiety, cravings and binges.

To Gain Control Of Your Eating Habits Second Plan How You Eat:

• Do awake (or conscious) eating rather than "oh my...I just ingested a box of candy." This would be an example of unconscious eating.
• Do the sit down thing...at a table, with a plate and utensils and even a napkin in front of you.
• Taste what you eat. Chew it. Savor it.
• When you can, dine with fine, calm people.

To Gain Control Of Your Eating Habits Third Pre-Plan Alternative Decision Strategies:

• Practice saying, "Yes, thank you, I will have a candy," after having thought about it and even planned for it.
• Practice saying, "No, thank you. I would not like a candy," after having thought about it and deciding that you don't want it, or you don't want it now.

About the Author:

Marianne Ross, Ph.D. is a Licensed Psychologist in private practice in Irvine and Laguna Beach, CA. (714) 497-3454. She also works at the University of California, Irvine. Counseling Center/College of Medicine.